Essential Distance and closeness in Love: the paradox. In my life and relationship with my husband of 25 years I have always been in a paradox of needing love and closeness and space and distance simultaneously. This poem is about the essential distance and the importance on individuality.

Saturn

With a naked eye, the rings can go unnoticed,

Despite such brilliance

Solitude, solid and perfectly you

At times cold and fiercely independent

Do you ever want to see me with all my imperfections?

If so, give me a sign

You never truly touch the wonder

A peripheral longing that evades contact

Loyalty displayed for an eternity

Your presence is always there

The rings create utmost magnificence

Heartsick that the distance remains

Over time, you learned to stand in love

Oh Saturn, how can such distance create a lifelong peace?

Close up, the rings are nothing but small meaningless pieces

Standing back they are so beautiful and mesmerizing

Please share your wisdom

I will constantly orbit around you for eternity

Knowing you see me

Knowing we complete each other

It’s that you are there

That I can close my eyes and breathe

Carl Meadows

March 21, 2014

Dedicated to Les